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I have long thought that what makes a good school so good is not the teaching that it does but the community that it generates. Here is an excerpt from a college president who expressed a similar idea in The Atlantic Monthly: “What makes you college worth $35,000 per year?” It’s a hard question for a college president to answer, especially because it’s usually raised at gatherings for prospective students and their anxious, checkbook-conscious parents. But it also provides an opportunity to cast one’s school in a favorable light—to wax eloquent about admissions selectivity, high graduation rates, small classes, and alumni satisfaction.
The makings of a good school at the college level is based on the good students they get through their admissions process. So when does the quality of a student become fixed? Are good students born or are they made? Of course the answer is “yes.” Some people have a disposition towards the qualities a good school wants, someone who can forgo their autonomy in focused effort to acquire the norms of the academic disciplines that colleges are trying to pass on. Other people need to put more effort into putting up with the demands. A Good School Provides Practice How can we help the kids develop along the lines that will assist them to be the best student they can be when they eagerly arrive at the good school that admits them? We can first of all give them the most important skill of all, the ability to make a good decision about whether going to a good school for college is really the best decision for their life and the goals and aspirations they hold dear. Becoming a skillful decider in your life requires practice, a lot of practice. Practice at making both trivial as well as important decisions. I personally was not given enough practice at making decisions in my young life and so I mindlessly went to college for three years without any understanding of the debt I was accruing and the true cost of not being clear about what I wanted to do with myself or my life. Then when I finally figured out that there was something I wanted to do more than anything else, it turned out that the college I was attending was not going to provide any meaningful access to that realm. At least in this limited way those three years were a huge waste of money. (But in the grander scheme I got great value out of the experience, even if it wasn't worth the money that was spent.)
If you want to find a good school for your children, then find the kind of school that will enable them to make lots and lots of decisions, both trivial and important, and be held accountable for the consequences of those decisions. If they only allow the kids to make trivial decisions or do not have a clear and explicit process that enables the kids to hold other people accountable for their behavior, then it is not the kind of school that I would consider good.
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